Anatomy matters when it comes to finding the right toy for you.
Your body is unique: not only in appearance but in the way it responds to stimulation. Finding a sex toy is a bit like finding a glove; it has to not only fit, but it has to feel exactly the way you want it to.
In this article, we cover the best pleasure toys for women; ones that tickle the clit, massage the G-spot, and ones that touch you in all the right places, all at once.
When you’ve found the toy that answers your prayers, it’s best to take good care of it, so we cover hygiene and maintenance for each toy as well. Read the full guide to cleaning your sex toy.
UVee Clean has you covered.
The Best Female Pleasure Toys
For the woman who wants a gentle but mind-blowing clit experience.
The clitoris is a bit of an enigma. It’s a bundle of sensitive nerve endings, and when touched just right, it can deliver memorable orgasms. However, if touched too much or in the wrong way, it can feel downright uncomfortable – or even painful!
The Womanizer Deluxe is a sex toy that aims to please without discomfort that other clitoral vibes might result in. It’s the only toy using PleasureAir technology. The Womanizer stimulates the clit indirectly with pulsating waves.
This toy will gently suck your clitoris into a silicone nozzle, exposing it to gentle pulsating without any direct touching.
Discomfort and pain in the course of achieving your clitoral orgasm will be a thing of the past as long as you have The Womanizer Deluxe!
Cleaning the Womanizer Deluxe
The Womanizer Deluxe is built from two materials: a soft silicone nozzle and a hard plastic body.
The nozzle is the only part that sees much action during a session, so that’s what you should be cleaning more thoroughly.
As the hard plastic body is motorized and not over-exposed to fluids, you can wipe it down with a warm, damp cloth (not wet!).
As for the nozzle, you’re going to want to clean it with more vigor. Silicone can be washed in warm soapy water, in the dishwasher, or in a sanitizing unit.
If washing your nozzle in the sink, submerge it in warm water, use a hypoallergenic – or other gentle – soap, and scrub it lightly with a cloth. Allow it to air dry, or pat dry with a towel that won’t leave lint on the silicone.
If not adequately dried, bacteria can quickly form. Additionally, soap and water do not usually clean as thoroughly as necessary.
If using a dishwasher, place the nozzle in the cutlery basket so it doesn’t get lost. If your dishwasher uses very hot water, you may want to avoid using it on your nozzle – just in case (not a recommended form of cleaning a sex toy).
Sanitizing and Thoroughly Cleaning The Womanizer
As for a cleansing unit, we always recommend the UVee.
It’s a storage and hygiene solution all in one. Place the entire Womanizer in the box and switch it on. The UVee uses UV-C light to disinfect the toys stored in it. Simply set and forget, and your toy will be clean in 5-10 minutes.
If your Womanizer is noticeably gunky or soiled after a session – try wiping it lightly with a damp cloth before throwing it into your UVee.
Keep reading to learn more about the UVee!
For the discreet woman on the move.
The Vesper Necklace is the world’s first wearable, multi-speed vibrator. With a stainless steel finish and an overall elegant design, this vibe passes as a fashionable statement necklace without issue.
Rechargeable by USB and with 4 speeds to choose from, this vibe is perfect for the busy bee who wants to keep something fun close at hand.
Cleaning the Vesper Necklace
A motorized device made from stainless steel, it’s best not to get too much water involved in the sanitization of your Vesper Necklace.
You can either wipe your Vesper down with a damp cloth and a smidgen of gentle soap. Or, you can easily use the UVee, which will purify it with UV-C light, ensuring no water damage.
When drying your Vesper, if you’ve exposed it to water, try polishing it off with a microfiber cloth to keep the steel shining and fresh.
Tiani 2 by LELO
For the woman who wants to enhance penetrative sex.
The Tiani is a wearable device that enhances penetration for both parties involved. The Tiani sits comfortably, stimulating the woman both internally and externally. It’s the perfect toy for the woman who likes to share.
With a sense motion remote, the Tiani allows for playful manipulation of the sensations it produces. The remote mimics the vibrations of the Tiani so that you can cycle through your options with better insight.
The Tiani is designed to fit comfortably regardless of your unique body, with built-in flexibility allowing you to manipulate how the toy sits.
It also includes an attachment for G-spot massage.
Cleaning the Tiani by LELO
The Tiani is made from firm silicone and is waterproof. As such, it can be washed by hand, in a dishwasher, or placed in a cleaning device.
If washing by hand or dishwasher, make sure to wash all components thoroughly, including the remote. It can get involved in the action during play.
Allow the Tiani to air dry when done. If you don’t have the time to do that after EVERY use, use an absorbent (and clean) flannel to pat dry, or…
If using a sanitizing unit like the UVee, why not charge your Tiani while it’s cleaning? Simply feed your charger through the unit, so your Tiani is cleaned and recharged simultaneously.
Perfect for anticipating a second round of play after a 5-minute rest.
Tango by We-Vibe
For the woman looking for a vibe on the go.
The Tango is a discreet, cute vibe that looks slightly like a stick of your favorite balm. The flat edge is unique to the Tango and allows for more flexibility as to where on your body you apply the massaging effects.
Don’t let the cuteness fool you. The Tango delivers a deep rumble of vibration and it’s all concentrated at the tapered tip. You can use this vibe alone or in tandem with other toys to add an extra intense buzz.
Cleaning the Tango Sex Toy
The Tango is made from body-safe, thermal protective plastic. The body is also waterproof, making cleaning the Tango a relatively straightforward affair. You can hand wash the Tango or put it in the dishwasher – although, with the latter, we always err on the side of caution when it comes to motorized toys.
Dry your Tango in the dish rack or by patting dry with a towel or flannel. It’s a durable product, so you don’t have to be too careful with it.
However, soap and water alone don’t always (or even usually) rid your pleasure product of nasty bacteria.
Our favorite method for cleaning the Tango is to plug it in and store it in the UVee, where it’s fully cleansed by UV-C light in 5-10 minutes while it recharges.
We like the convenience of cleaning a vibe in a unit that also locks it away and charges it. It allows for extra privacy and also enables you to clean it without leaving the bedroom.
With a sanitization process that takes as little as 5 minutes, leaving bed might not be necessary at all. Why not clean your vibe while continuing to play?
Your Tango will be ready to use again in just a handful of minutes.
Sync by We-Vibe
For the woman who needs a custom fit.
If you’re looking for a toy that both massages your G-spot and clitoris, then try out Sync by We-Vibe.
You can adjust the Sync to any body’s unique shape. There are two adjustable parts of the Sync, allowing you to customize its sensations on the inside and outside. Not everyone’s magic spots are in the same place, and not everyone wants the same amount of pressure.
Once adjusted to fit just right, the Sync stays in place no matter how you toss, turn, or change positions – making it the perfect toy for enhancing PIV sex with a partner (for all involved).
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It has 10 different vibration modes, making it even more personable. Those different modes can be cycled through via a remote which can work from up to 9 feet away – giving you some cheeky, freaky options for play.
Cleaning the Sync Sex Toy
The Sync is made from 100% body-safe silicone and is fully waterproof, so it’s easy to clean. You can wash in warm water, with gentle soap, or use a unit like the UVee. As previously mentioned, we probably wouldn’t put it through the dishwasher, as it’s motorized. Regardless of its waterproof status, the heat of a dishwasher could do damage over time.
If you’re short on time and wanting to share the Sync, you’ll need an UVee Clean unit, which can clean your toy in just 5 minutes – so no one has to wait for long.
Never share a toy without sanitizing it first!
Mio Ring by Je Joue
For the woman who wants her partner to go harder - longer.
Sometimes, pleasure for women is all about enhancing their partner’s performance. When it comes to PIV sex, C-rings are a great way of doing just that.
The Mio Ring by Je Joue is an elegant, flexible C-ring with vibration modes that guarantee to tickle her from within while keeping him harder for longer.
Mio is super easy to slip on and wear, making it a relatively straightforward and easy beginner’s toy to introduce to your regular play sessions.
Cleaning the Mio Ring
The Mio is made of 100% waterproof and body-safe silicone. Like the other waterproof silicone toys on this list, the Mio can be washed in warm water and soap, or for those who truly want to stay clean and stay safe, in the UVee.
A fully charged Mio can last 2 hours before it needs a recharge, but sometimes your toys are dead just when you need them most. That’s why the UVee, which both cleans and recharges, is a bit of a godsend for toy enthusiasts.
If cleaning the Mio with water, it’s best to air dry. Silicone can be a bit of a lint and fluff attractor.
Le Wand Pleasure Toy for Women
For the woman who wants mind blowing clitoral orgasms (because we all know the health benefits of having an orgasm).
There’s a reason that the wand is one of the most famous, talked about, beloved pleasure toys for women; it’s effortless to use, easy to manipulate, and therefore easy to achieve jaw-dropping clitoral orgasms.
Its flexible, swiveling head responds so well to its position, it’s no wonder that the wand is one of the most popular toys for solo play (not that Le Wand can’t be introduced to partnered sex as well).
Le Wand has a long handle with buttons allowing you to adjust the vibration mode and customize your own vibration patterns. The long handle provides comfortable manipulation of the flexible, soft, but firm head on the end of Le Wand.
It’s this head that delivers the pleasurable buzz to your clitoris, guaranteed to curl your toes.
Cleaning Le Wand Adult Toy
Only the head of Le Wand sees much action, so it needs to be cleaned thoroughly. Meanwhile, the handle can be wiped down with a clean, damp cloth.
As the head is attached to the rest of the unit, and the Le Wand is not fully waterproof, you’re best off washing the head with a damp cloth as well. You’ll want to use soap as well to be more hygienic. Due to how careful you have to be with cleaning Le Wand, it’s better to use a dry option – such as the UVee.
Le Wand’s charge works out at about three hours of charging for three hours of use. That’s a long charge, and while some of us may say that an hour of play is enough, any woman who enjoys clitoral orgasms knows that it’s better to aim for longer sessions, just in case you get carried away.
For this reason, the UVee is an excellent complimentary device to use with Le Wand, as it can cleanse the whole product while providing a charge. You’re less likely to have a dead Le Wand on your hands when you’re next ready for fun.
Lily 2 by LELO
For the woman who wants to carry a discreet massager in her purse - because why not?
The Lily 2 is a cute, jelly bean-shaped massager that fits in the palm of its user’s hand. It’s perfect for solo play, or for a partner to use on you.
It’s designed to massage externally. The buzzing vibrations can be gently applied to just about any external erogenous zone, but of course, it is perfect for clitoral stimulation.
The Lily 2 has eight different vibration patterns to choose from, and boy – do they pack a punch. It’s also rechargeable via USB, making it the perfect toy to haul around on short or long trips.
If you’re a busy woman in need of something unidentifiable, easy to use, and small and sleek – then look no further than the Lily 2.
Cleaning the Lily 2
The Lily 2 is made of hard but smooth ABS, body-safe plastic, and is waterproof. Clean it with warm water and soap, or you can use a toy-specific antibacterial soap. You can also easily clean it in the UVee while it charges.
Although the Lily 2 is discrete, if you’re bringing it along with you on business trips or the like, keeping it in the UVee. It'll locks with a pin code, gives you that extra level of security to ensure your Lily 2 is kept private.
Hula Beads by LELO
For the woman who enjoys a dirty little secret.
The Hula Beads are remote-controlled pleasure beads that can be used in several ways. The beads rotate and vibrate simultaneously, resulting in a unique sensory experience.
You can insert the top bead while using the lower half to stimulate externally, or – if you’re looking for a kinkier experience, the whole thing can be inserted and worn internally.
Discreetly wear your beads as a secret that you might keep to yourself or share with your partner (who you may want to equip with the remote). The vibration is almost inaudible, so you can wear them wherever you like without being found out!
The Hula Beads are a playful, kinky pleasure toy that can be used as a vibe or a wearable. The options for play seem endless!
Cleaning the Hula Beads
The Hula Beads are of course waterproof and can be washed in the sink with warm water and a gentle soap that won’t cause you irritation next time you play with them.
They are better sanitized by UV-C light – and with the UVee, simultaneously stored, and charged.
Muse Pleasure Product for Women
For the woman who likes clitoral stimulation and cute things.
The Muse is a discrete, adorable clit massager. Resembling a bunny-eared knickknack that you might display on your shelf, this toy will melt you with cuteness and powerful vibrating ears.
Each vibrating ear sits on either side of your clit, giving you indirect, toe-curling stimulation. The Muse ends up feeling more like an actual toy that you can tote around, rather than an obvious sex toy.
It’s a great toy to bring with you on trips and a great toy for breaking the ice when sharing with a partner who you’ve yet to use sex toys with.
The adorableness of the Muse makes it less intimidating than other clit massagers, and as such is a great first time toy for beginners, and partners looking to introduce toys to their bedtime play.
Of course, don’t let the bunny-like cuteness fool you: this toy has 10 different vibration modes that are guaranteed to deliver fantastic clitoral orgasms.
Cleaning the Muse
The Muse is water resistant, but not 100% waterproof, so you don’t want to submerge it totally in water when washing it.
The silicone ears are the only real part of the toy that gets exposure to bodily fluids, so this is where you want to focus your hygiene routine.
Try using a damp cloth and a tiny bit of soap to wipe down the ears, then rinse under a slight stream of running water.
If you’re wanting to play it totally safe and totally smart; avoid water altogether by using UV-C light as a water-free cleanser. Simply store in the UVee and have your Muse ready in 5-10 minutes. The charge isn’t great with this toy, so you’ll want to charge it as you store it to avoid disappointment.
Which Female Sex Toy Will You Choose?
Achieving orgasm as a woman is more of an art than a science. Every woman’s body is different in some way, and as such, it takes specific techniques and specifically designed pleasure toys to achieve the desired effect.
See our list of recommended sex toys here!
We hope this comprehensive list of our recommendations for the perfect pleasure toys helps you find your next big O-face product.
Whether you achieve the most pleasure from intense solo play or from subtle accompaniment to your partnered sessions, there is a perfect pleasure toy out there for you. Don’t be afraid to experiment, and of course – as with all sexual pleasure – pay attention to your body, and don’t be afraid to demand what you need from yourself, your partner/s, and your toys.
All we suggest is that when you find the right toy for you, take the best care of it. Whether you develop a fantastic in-sink scrubbing technique or invest in hygiene technology, take as good care of your pleasure toys as they do of you and your sexual satisfaction. Your health depends on it.
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